My brother struggled with premature ejaculation for years, and never came to me for advice, or even admitted it to me because he was embarrassed. I totally understand that, and when he finally did admit to me that it was a problem (after a couple of beers), I patted him on the back and told him I wished he would have talked to me about it sooner, because I used to deal with the same thing. No, premature ejaculation doesn’t just ‘run in the family’, but it does affect quite a few men, and the problem is, no one likes to talk about it. Luckily, my brother and I are close, and once he told me about his problem, I told him that there are plenty of possible solutions out there, and gave him some tips on what worked best for me.
First thing I tried was an experiment
The first thing I tried was basically just an experiment. I had heard all about these ‘deep breathing’ techniques some men had success with, so I gave them a shot. They did make me feel much more relaxed, and there are even specific exercises you can do along with them. It almost felt like a form of meditation, and while they helped me relax and focus, which made me feel better overall, they didn’t do very much for my premature ejaculation problem.
I’ve been married for five years, and my wife had known about my ‘issue’ even when we were dating – she married me anyway, because she’s a saint, but I still always felt guilty that I couldn’t fully satisfy her in bed, just because I couldn’t last very long. When the deep breathing exercises didn’t work the way I wanted them to, I went to the next step with her support, and decided to try some different products.
Buying products online for any sexual problem
Buying products online for any sexual problem you might be having can be scary. There are some negative reviews and some positive ones, there are potential side effects, etc. But we were desperate at that point, so my wife and I tried several of them. The most common I used were usually creams or lotions of some kind, and while there was a little effect from some, it wasn’t without a fair share of issues. Some took hours to kick in, and some only worked for a few minutes. Others worked a little too much, and I couldn’t even enjoy the sex I was having because I couldn’t feel it. The worst, though was experiencing a sort of ‘numbness’ from one of the products. I later found out it had something in it called Lidocaine, which is actually used as a local anesthetic. It can be scary stuff if you’re not careful.
I had almost given up searching for products online until I stumbled across a product called Pelay, which claimed to do all of the things these other products simply couldn’t, all with no negative side effects. With nothing to lose, I went ahead and ordered it. The first time my wife and I tried it, I knew I would never go back to any other product. It came with the Pelay Gel and Pelay Applier, and when I used them together, I could feel it working in under five minutes. The Pelay Gel worked like a lubricant, so I could still enjoy sex. And of course, my wife enjoyed that I lasted 45 minutes. We use Pelay now whenever we have sex, and I have never had one negative side effect – our sex life has never been better.
When I told all of this to my brother who was still struggling with premature ejaculation, he almost found it too good to be true. But, I actually just got an e-mail from him the other day saying he had tried Pelay for the first time, and he knew it was going to change his sex life forever.